KC

Kyle Carpenter

Things Kyle Says on Podcasts

Where to Find Them

Kyle Carpenter has been a guest on The Daily Stoic (4 times) , Maxwell Leadership Podcast and A Bit of Optimism .

Recently: “BONUS | The Incredible Story of Medal of Honor Recipient Kyle Carpenter” on The Daily Stoic (November 2026); “This Is Almost a Miracle | The Epictetus Lesson Kyle Carpenter Lives By” on The Daily Stoic (August 2026); “What Comes After Surviving the Unthinkable | Kyle Carpenter” on The Daily Stoic (May 2026); “Kyle Carpenter on Courage, Survival, and What Comes After” on The Daily Stoic (April 2026); “Awesome Responsibility with Kyle Carpenter” on A Bit of Optimism (June 2021); “You Are Worth It with Kyle Carpenter” on Maxwell Leadership Podcast (December 2019).

What They Said

“I saw that there were some that had much more minor injuries, but they just never left the hospital. … And I saw that their mindset and not their injuries were holding them back.” — Kyle Carpenter, The Daily Stoic

Kyle Carpenter describes his long hospital recovery in 2010. Seeing patients with lighter injuries fail to move forward made him think hard about his own mindset.

The Daily Stoic · 2026-11-11 Permalink → Listen →
The Daily Stoic Around 35:56 into the episode
Kyle Carpenter

…and inch me forward. And it's not about the limbs. I think just what I'm saying is it's about the mindset and looking at what you have compared to what you don't have. And I think that comparison, it can do wonders for you and take you amazing places, or that comparison can become the thief of joy.

Ryan Holiday

Yeah.

Kyle Carpenter

And it can turn you into a perpetually pessimistic person. And also, you know, I saw in the hospital, and before I say this, I want to note that I think struggle, adversity, and most things in life should never be compared. You know, my buddy Andy Stump said, you know, I've done more than some and less than others. Yeah. And that really stuck with me. But with that said, and again, not comparing, but I saw that there were those in the hospital with me because 2010 was a very violent year in Afghanistan. Most of the hospital rooms, I think except for mine, because I was one of the ones in the worst shape. I needed a one-to-one. I needed kind of some other stuff going on in my room, a lot of machines. But every single room had two beds and two patients in it. And there was even a time where the least injured were out in the hallways. And so a lot of casualties were there and a lot of wounded warriors recovering. But I saw that there were some that had, you know…

Ryan Holiday

Right.

Kyle Carpenter

And I saw that their mindset and not their injuries were holding them back.

Ryan Holiday

Yeah.

Speaker names come from our own diarization. The position is estimated from where the line sits in the episode.

Collections They Appear In