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Julia Minson

Heard on Behavioral Grooves Podcast, on the record here questioning claims about who avoids conflict and arguing that people comfortable with disagreement just don't see where it leads.

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“…Most of the world is conflict avoidant. People don't like conflict, right? I think people who we don't think of as conflict avoidant are mostly just people who are short-sighted, who don't imagine the disagreement turning into conflict.” — Julia Minson, Behavioral Grooves Podcast

Minson is responding to the hosts describing themselves as conflict-avoidant Midwesterners, and notes that nearly everyone she meets has a story about why they personally avoid conflict: being a woman, a Canadian, a Midwesterner. She flags the claim as conjecture she has not measured globally, then inverts the usual framing. On her account the people who look comfortable with conflict are not braver, just not seeing where the disagreement leads.

Behavioral Grooves Podcast · 2026-08-31 Context → Listen →

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