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“I think about the cap table as like a living room. It's like people move in, they rarely move out.” Byron Ling · How I Invest with David Weisburd

Startups & Venture · September 2026

“I think about the cap table as like a living room. It's like people move in, they rarely move out.” — Byron Ling, How I Invest with David Weisburd

Ling was describing why he runs a first founder meeting as a conversation rather than an interrogation: the goal is for the founder to trust him, because the relationship that follows is close to permanent. He says this is the expression he uses with founders directly once a deal starts getting serious. It is an argument for slowness in a stage of investing known for speed.

Transcript

How I Invest with David Weisburd Around 12:22 into the episode
Byron Ling

I actually really love it when they truly just say, I actually don't know. And there's two things that can happen. They'll say, I'm actually going to go figure that out. And I'm going to come back to you in five hours and tell you. But I would say the more common thing is, it's okay if they don't know. I want to hear how they're going to approach the problem. They will inevitably face all these product and customer problems that they have to solve. And so, much of what we're trying to do at the earliest stages is say, how good of a problem solver are you? And I think communication is a big part of that.

David Weisburd

One of the things that's coming up over and over between the GP and LP layer is this authenticity and vulnerability and really getting to know you because LPs are going to be invested in you for at least 10 years. Here, you could argue it's a similar timeline. Is that also a great leading indicator when a founder is just very authentic with why they're doing something, even if not every part of the story may be the most flattering thing about themselves?

Byron Ling

Yeah. One of the things you want to do is get the founder to trust you. And I think a lot of that comes down to how do you conduct the first meeting in a way where it's not putting them on the stand. It's actually, why don't we just go have a conversation and can we find the truth together around what you're doing? The best founders are inherently very authentic and you feel that. And this is part of why are they doing this? You actually don't actually have to ask why that many times because they're going to be such clear articulators of why they're doing this and why they're probably the only person in the world that would do this otherwise. When you go on these journeys, you're going to be with them. I think about the cap table as like a living room. It's like people move in, they rarely move out. And I use that expression oftentimes with founders that we're starting to go deeper with because we want them to feel like they can learn about us. And it's not a one-way road. It's a two-way partnership. Getting to authenticity quickly and then figuring out: do you work well together? It's very hard if people are trying to put a facade on and just trying to raise money. What we find is you want to get to the authentic purpose really quickly.

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Erik Torenberg

You seem to have this understanding of exactly what kind of founder you're looking for. This excellence. How many meetings? That take you to get to understanding what excellence looks like.

Byron Ling

We've probably met about 30,000 founders so far in the last 10 or 12 years, just having been focused on pre-seed and seed. So it's a very high volume. It's an evolving muscle. It's sort of like you're just trying to get better at it every single day. One of the challenges is you make these commitments with these founders very early, but it can take seven to 15 years, sometimes pretty quickly if it's not working. And so you're constantly trying to pattern match things in the past while also making that new investments that are going to take another five to 10 years. Just having a base of thousands of meetings, starting to see the difference between excellent and good, gives you this foundation for some of these traits to assess very quickly. I still think you need to spend a lot of time with founders. There's no substitute. I don't think there's any shortcut to sort of coming up with this judgment.

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