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Start free trial →Behavioral Grooves Podcast · November 2026
Asked what chapter he would add to his book, Jay cites a study finding that AI tells people seeking relationship advice that they are in the right and owe no apology, and pairs it with young people dating less and so practising compromise less.
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If you could add another chapter to the book, what would that be on?
…AI for relationship advice, it is telling them that they're in the right. They don't owe the person an apology. They don't need to compromise. They don't need to do something to repair the friction or conflict in the relationship. And so people then get that advice and then they're not doing it. They're not going and saying, listen, I'm sorry, I overstepped or can I meet you halfway? And so I worry that there's going to be a generation of people who don't have relationship skills because they're getting advice from someone who's telling them that they're always in the right and they don't owe anything to anybody else. They didn't misstep. And then let me tell you, let me layer that on two other trends. First of all, don't know if you've seen the date on this. Young people don't date anymore. They're not having sex anymore. And they're not learning relationship skills because guess when you're dating in high school and college, you're making mistakes. You're learning, but you're learning how to compromise. You're learning when…
And so I want to dig into that because I do a lot of work with different organizations and AI has been big and work swap and other things. And we've talked about that on the show before, but there is one piece that I think that your expertise might really dig into. And that is talking with people…
Okay. So let's layer this on top of two other massive technologies that have already pushed in this direction. One is work from home. So amazing technology. We're doing this podcast from three remote spaces. I now teach my intra-psych class remotely because we started doing during COVID. Super…
It's aligned 100% with my soapbox.