Jay Van Bavel

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Psychology Professor and Director of the Center for Conflict & Cooperation at New York University | Author of "The Power Of Us" book & newsletter @powerofus

Where to Find Them

Jay Van Bavel hosts and writes The Power of Us . They have also been a guest on Plain English with Derek Thompson (3 times) , Hidden Brain (3 times) , The Game Changing Attorney Podcast with Michael Mogill (2 times) , Odd Lots , On the Media , The Behavioral Design Podcast , The TED AI Show , Worklife with Molly Graham , TED Tech , Passion Struck with John R. Miles , Behavioral Grooves Podcast , The Rational Reminder Podcast and Eat Sleep Work Repeat - better workplace culture . They also write for Jay Van Bavel on Substack.

Recently: “How Social Media Manipulates You | Jay van Bavel” on Behavioral Grooves Podcast (November 2026); “The Science of Making Teams Work” on The Power of Us (September 2026); “August Research Roundup: 10 new findings from social psychology” on The Power of Us (September 2026); “To celebrate our 5 year anniversary our book is on sale for$2.99 today!” on The Power of Us (August 2026); “Why We Avoid the Conversations That Would Make Us Happier” on The Power of Us (August 2026); “Why Good People Become So Divided” on Passion Struck with John R. Miles (August 2026).

What They Said

Asked whether an AI agent on a team would collaborate like a human teammate, the psychologist answers from research on chatbot flattery. He says he changed his own chatbot's settings to be critical and skeptical, and recommends others do the same.

Behavioral Grooves Podcast · 2026-11-02 Permalink → Listen →
Behavioral Grooves Podcast Around 18:49 into the episode
Jay Van Bavel

two birds with one stone. Make some new friends who aren't smokers and then you'll be able to. It's easier to quit the behavior if you're in a new friend group.

Kurt Nelson

…I love it. All right. The last of our infamous speed round questions here, Jay. If an AI agent joined our team, would we collaborate and work together in the same way that we always have with just regular human teammates? No. Okay. So you just wrote, you just wrote about this, right? Yeah. So

Jay Van Bavel

we have research on this. So AI chatbots are on average 50% more sycophantic than if you're interacting with a random stranger. And so what happens is they tell you you're brilliant and wonderful. They don't give you the critical feedback. And people love that, but it makes them overconfident. It makes them more extreme in their beliefs. And also they have a bias blind spot for it. They don't realize that it's fueling them with hot air. So I went into my own chat bot once I got that data and I turned that off and I told it to be really critical and skeptical and don't sugarcoat things for me. So I highly recommend if you're going to do one thing from this podcast that'll help you be a better thinker, go do that.

Kurt Nelson

Yeah.

Tim Houlihan

You can actually do that. You could actually go to Claude or Chat GPT or Perplexity and say, don't be so sycophantic. Stop it.

Jay Van Bavel

On GPT, there's like a warmth button, which you can turn off. And then there's like a little like text box that you can describe how you want it to interact with you. And so I'm just like, act like an expert, be objective, use facts and evidence. Don't flatter me. And it's gotten much better. And I…

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